RESPONSIBILITY IS FREEDOM, EMPOWERMENT, UNLIMITED, CHOICE.
Say the word “RESPONSIBILITY” – and I’m sure you ay feel the heavy burden piling up on you back…. (That is just your perception and unfortunately a perception which most of us has grown up with).
Responsibility is about the ability to RESPOND to a situation/person versus REACTING.
Being REACTIVE – comes from and old memory stored away of a similar situation/experience, so you keep RE – ENACTING the same way. Therein lies the unhealed emotion for a past wound. (The Shadow) You attract the same patterns, circumstance, and types of people because you are reacting the same way.
When you take responsibility for Yourself …
You empower yourself – You take back your power You start to become aware that YOU are the creator of your own reality and YOU have the power to Change and Choose differently. You stop giving your power away to outside sources. You stop being a Victim – You stop Blame – You stop believing You Owe me…
You start taking ACTION – Positive Action!
You have attracted this work, this job, this environment and all these people and guess what, they are all on your stage, they are there for your benefit, to help you grow and learn and to be all that you can be… To help you remember Who you really are. And sometime that is not going to be comfortable. So yes your buttons are going to be pushed – and your (ARCHETYPES JUMP INTO ACTION) Your ”Shadow Self” will jump out an inappropriate times and lash out, Your Victim will cry “Why Me” Your Prostitute will say how much can I get out of this. Your Inner Child will throw a tantrum. Your Saboteur will sabotage you any way it can…
Welcome to life in the unconscious realm. It leaves you spinning and asking yourself “What just happened”…
Would you rather be aware of all these dynamics instead of living in Denial (not the river in Egypt) where nothing is your fault and the only way you know how to get out of a situation is blame someone or something else, where victim rules your every move…
Wouldn’t you prefer to look at the bigger picture and respond differently to challenges that arise…?
We all have our issues and nobody is perfect… yet!
We all get stressed, worried, go into fear, feel like a victim, behave like a perpetrator, loose it, feel down, feel great, etc
With responsibility comes growth, you control your life, you learn to recognize your feelings, beliefs, you are creating and through understanding you begin to take responsibility.
for your growth, for your spiritual understanding, for your physical interactions, for your situations. You cannot say its someone else’s fault when in truth whatever happens to you is a mirror reflection of what you are doing and feeling inside.
No person or thing is responsible for how you feel, what you think and do just as you are not responsible for their feelings and emotions and what they do.
Honor each others journey and the mirrors you hold up for each other – Again what happens on the outside is a reflections of what is going on inside of you.
Your mantra can be: “If it’s not good for the Whole then it’s not good at all””
What are you contributing?
Are you being accountable? We all can make mistakes, instead of blaming and denying isn’t it better to focus on and find a solution.
Instead of being REACTIVE – (move the C and become) C-REATIVE.
This is your community what you put in is what you energetically get out.
Work From you heart Space, Give your love and joy into everything you do.
Loose yourself in your work
Be fully present and focused
Let of Judgment – you are not walking in that persons shoes so you do not know how they feel of what is going on…
Allow your self to be vulnerable – acknowledge your emotions and feelings.
Speak your truth and not in anger… being assertive means sticking to the facts without emotion.
Be open to listening, open to change, open to compromise, open to seeing another’s point of view.
Don’t be afraid to admit your mistakes and your limits – this is humility
Always be grateful for everything – this is the most powerful emotion in the law of attractions.
Family Constellation Facilitator and Holistic Practitioner.